lace curtains flutter lightly
on the riverbreeze
she roams the bedroom
lighting scented candles
hoping her lover will come to her tonight
what game he will want to play
already wearing his favorite
of her "naughty jammies"
barely covering her voluptuous form
she suddenly hears his footstep on the stairs
she rushes to meet him
Unfortunately we live in a world where rape culture is so rife that people no longer realise when they engage in it. Though we all know the staggering statistics about sexual assault, we seem to assume that no one we know has gone through that. We would have known! No, you wouldn’t have. Especially if you have been laughing at rape jokes or engaging in them yourself.
Newcomers to the scene can learn an awful lot from attending play parties, but many are intimidated by the protocol and the unknown. This article is designed as a quick study to arm you with the basics to give you the confidence to attend play parties without tripping over the rules and accidentally offending anyone. It may also serve as a reminder to more seasoned community members who are so used to being on the scene that they sometimes forget basic protocol.
The acronym DD/lg for starters can be amended in accordance with whatever gender is in this relationship dynamic (Mommy Domme/little boy). With that being said, we're only going to refer to it as Daddy and little since that is how our relationship is.
i kneel before you
you smile down upon me
touching your thigh
i beg to have a taste
of your divine sweetness
both of us knowing
you caress my head
Play is always a very intense emotional interaction. Be it between sadist and masochist, Dominant and submissive, or Master and slave. Contrary to the common belief, actual emotions are revealed and sometimes triggered in play.
Unlike sex, a known quantity that we learn about from very early age and the western culture is preoccupied with, which we practice often, play is new to many of us. Even experienced players have played much less than say a few hundred times in their lives.
From the age of 10 I was forced into a life of responsibility that was so far ahead of my emotional and physical years. My father had remarried an Indian woman who despised my brother and I because we were not brought up in the “correct” way under my mother. She quickly pushed me into the household roles of a typical Indian woman, which mean that I spent my time after school cleaning and cooking instead of enjoying extra curricular activities and making friends. When she had her son, she suffered from an intense bought of post natal depression, which added to my responsibilities – I now had to care for my 3 month old brother when he woke at night and I could hear her hard slaps on his soft skin.
It's a liberating feeling when the jigsaw pieces fall together and the moment of self-awareness occurs - that point when one first thinks "I am a submissive."
But that's just setting one foot on the start of the road. Your next few steps could lead you right into one of many well-known pitfalls as the search begins to find a dominant woman to complement you.
Here, then, are four common pitfalls which can occur in the early stages of exploring one's submission as a male seeking a Female-Led Relationship - and ways to potentially avoid them.