In a nutshell I was abandoned at 13. At 21 I found my 1st love - pokes turned into pushing, then punching -before long I was just a hostage to him. After my beatings he would cry and I would comfort him and he’d make gentle love to me. Somehow somewhere sex got mixed in with the beatings - when I left him he broke into my apartment and unscrewed all the light bulbs. When I got home I was thinking "I know I paid the bill". I was so naïve. He was behind a door and pounced...
Many readers, both Dominants and submissives, send me messages asking about submissive or slave training.
They want to know if there is a "correct" way to do it. I always tell them with respect, compassion, and deep understanding of the individual person and situation.
I believe that just as every person is different, every situation is also. You have to adapt training to fit your submissive's personality, as well as your relationship and lifestyle. If your sub/slave is a brat, you will usually end up giving harsher and more frequent punishments.
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lace curtains flutter lightly
on the riverbreeze
she roams the bedroom
lighting scented candles
hoping her lover will come to her tonight
what game he will want to play
already wearing his favorite
of her "naughty jammies"
barely covering her voluptuous form
she suddenly hears his footstep on the stairs
she rushes to meet him
Unfortunately we live in a world where rape culture is so rife that people no longer realise when they engage in it. Though we all know the staggering statistics about sexual assault, we seem to assume that no one we know has gone through that. We would have known! No, you wouldn’t have. Especially if you have been laughing at rape jokes or engaging in them yourself.
Newcomers to the scene can learn an awful lot from attending play parties, but many are intimidated by the protocol and the unknown. This article is designed as a quick study to arm you with the basics to give you the confidence to attend play parties without tripping over the rules and accidentally offending anyone. It may also serve as a reminder to more seasoned community members who are so used to being on the scene that they sometimes forget basic protocol.
The acronym DD/lg for starters can be amended in accordance with whatever gender is in this relationship dynamic (Mommy Domme/little boy). With that being said, we're only going to refer to it as Daddy and little since that is how our relationship is.
i kneel before you
you smile down upon me
touching your thigh
i beg to have a taste
of your divine sweetness
both of us knowing
you caress my head
Play is always a very intense emotional interaction. Be it between sadist and masochist, Dominant and submissive, or Master and slave. Contrary to the common belief, actual emotions are revealed and sometimes triggered in play.
Unlike sex, a known quantity that we learn about from very early age and the western culture is preoccupied with, which we practice often, play is new to many of us. Even experienced players have played much less than say a few hundred times in their lives.