Dominants are proud people. We are fiercely independent, controlling, proud of our resilience and our egos brim at the thought of our own self discipline. We want to be viewed as strong, capable and never off our game. But here’s the secret many Dominants won’t tell you; we’re actually human beings too. And as much as we hate it, that means we have to experience all the emotions and frustrations that comes with being a human being. When you think of it this way, it is not hard to imagine why Dom/me drop is so rarely spoken of or known about. Particularly amongst submissives. Believe me, we like it this way. Especially to our submissives, we want to appear flawless and in command. Especially of ourselves. So when we experience drop, those expectations are likely to make us feel a great deal worse.