Aftercare Following a scene, this is the time when participants catch their breath and come back to reality. Often discussion takes place where the scene is reviewed and feedback is given. This is also a time for closeness and warmth. If there has been pain or physical strain during the scene, the Dominant could use healing oils or massage their submissive. This is the time to reinforce the bond. Age play Controversial in nature only because of the confusion between fantasy and real life, age play is where people adopt roles of a nurturer and one who is nurtured. This can take the form of a Daddy/little girl, Teacher/student, etc.