The breakup of any relationship is difficult, but when dealing with a D/s or M/s dynamic, it is even harder. The couple was probably both very emotionally invested in the relationship, on a much deeper level than a vanilla one. From a submissive's point of view, breakups can often feel devastating. The submissive will feel alone, isolated, and scared. They will most likely not understand how to proceed on their own because they were so used to following orders and not making huge decisions.

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    Clayton  August 14, 2015 at 9:57 pm

    Thank you, Lady Hecate for this site. Thank you, Michelle, for this article. My relationship with Mistress Tatiana blew up in my face recently, and I’ve been going thru exactly the same kind of “what if” and “did I do something wrong?” self-pummeling described in this article. I’m going to end my connection to this site, because Mistress Tatiana introduced me to it, as she did FetLife, and my passwords are my safewords, so it’s better that I leave all of that behind. Too painful. I did want you to know, though, that you helped me deal with this. My sincerest thanks to you both.

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      Lady Hecate  August 15, 2015 at 11:22 am

      I am sorry to hear your news, Clayton. I hope you will join us again very soon.

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