Over the years, I have been asked many questions about the BDSM lifestyle. The questions ranged from D/s, S&M, to is BDSM normal. Recently, many have asked why people practice and get into BDSM. I have been asked advice by readers on how to explain why they chose to lead a BDSM lifestyle to their vanilla family and friends. Hopefully, my own explanation will help guide you in one of your own. As we all know, every person is different. People's likes, wants, needs, and desires vary tremendously.

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    miss Vikki  September 10, 2014 at 5:37 am

    A very well written article.
    Thank you.

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    Charles  November 20, 2014 at 7:56 am

    Awesome article. As a male submissive myself, it is simply who I am. It’s like breathing air, it just come’s natural.

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    Sharon  November 23, 2014 at 7:49 am

    Michelle Fegatofi is an excellent writer. I have read all of her books and articles on other sites. As always she provides clear and concise information that is helpful to both the new and experience in BDSM.

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